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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>DON’T CHASE ANYTHING BUT DREAMS</description><title>Beauty in the Breakdown</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @xtremedreamz)</generator><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m326jeQPiT1qkc2v6o1_r1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50641939160</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50641939160</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 04:56:14 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>brutalgeneration:

 (by rawmeyn) </title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/334d3e37d5d1184ef31765a6bfbaefd8/tumblr_mmuivjZNot1qigj88o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://brutalgeneration.tumblr.com/post/50561887579/by-rawmeyn" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;brutalgeneration&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt; (by &lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rawmeyn/6332073523/in/faves-burningskies/"&gt;rawmeyn&lt;/a&gt;) &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50562426609</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50562426609</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 02:39:42 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>For every single girl out there:</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://meaftergodsownheart.tumblr.com/post/40742220382"&gt;meaftergodsownheart&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Never, ever settle. You may think you aren’t gorgeous, smart and have too many insecurities to count. But there is going to be someone in the world who will truly love you for you. Don’t ever think that you’ve got to put up with some boy’s ego trip because he’s the first one in a long time to show some interest. You are all beautiful in your own individual way so never lower your standards.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Don’t ever settle for anyone lesser than Mr. God’s best.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50236186951</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50236186951</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 04:01:08 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>youthfuljourneys:

I need to work on endurance.
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/f39f718a59d767790be9739895171cc6/tumblr_mhfmqd1ULy1rr33oko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://youthfuljourneys.tumblr.com/post/41856629838/i-need-to-work-on-endurance"&gt;youthfuljourneys&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I need to work on endurance.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50236169639</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50236169639</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 04:00:44 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. 
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay...."</title><description>“&lt;p&gt;If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. &lt;br/&gt;
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;You should not be the one doing all the bending… Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage… Deal with your issues before pursuing a new&lt;br/&gt;
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE&lt;br/&gt;
individuals. Look for someone complimentary…&lt;br/&gt;
not supplementary. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Dating is fun… Even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes… When a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says… You should know that: You’re the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he’ll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he’s not the only one. They’re all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts… ❤&lt;/p&gt;”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://he-heals-the-brokenhearted.tumblr.com/"&gt;he-heals-the-brokenhearted&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50236083047</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50236083047</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 03:58:23 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c03274a32643ad7bc50faa9fb8a3c528/tumblr_mmo8pe1Byr1qjm9bpo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50231038034</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50231038034</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 02:01:16 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Your Personality by birthday: 12 July the birthday of the subtle initiator</title><description>&lt;a href="http://birthdaypersonality.tumblr.com/post/6233924565/12-july-the-birthday-of-the-subtle-initiator"&gt;Your Personality by birthday: 12 July the birthday of the subtle initiator&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://birthdaypersonality.tumblr.com/post/6233924565/12-july-the-birthday-of-the-subtle-initiator" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;birthdaypersonality&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;
&lt;p class="calibre10"&gt;&lt;span class="bold"&gt;Your greatest challenge is…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="calibre10"&gt;accepting you may be wrong&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="calibre10"&gt;&lt;span class="bold"&gt;&lt;span class="italic"&gt;The way forward is…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="calibre10"&gt;to understand that truly great leaders are truly great because they have learned to adjust their opinions if life gives them reason to do so.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="calibre10"&gt;&lt;span class="bold"&gt;You’re drawn to people born on…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="calibre10"&gt;&lt;span class="bold"&gt;&lt;span class="italic"&gt;October 24 to November…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50088849808</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/50088849808</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2013 10:02:00 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/80214f1e620d8a2b5a7dc4f7628779f1/tumblr_mkyzhzH8jG1s8gdy8o1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/49485114131</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/49485114131</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2013 22:41:09 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/b0c12a00e5f75097dfc311d9326da05a/tumblr_mlgdxt6HSg1ria8x2o1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/49483277292</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/49483277292</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2013 22:17:54 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/098aacb67c2e496bd8d8d635d12c2226/tumblr_mg6698BGEa1qll2q5o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933721990</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933721990</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 11:47:24 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/404e6c042483c05005af715843997ef3/tumblr_mf8vmieOYr1rv6ufko1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933569357</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933569357</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 11:44:23 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>sincerelyhapiness:

Follow for all black&amp;white...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/fd8e78af0313654734f093c0008d929e/tumblr_mjweb1Go9L1qcmkeso1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://sincerelyhapiness.tumblr.com/post/48702638790/follow-for-all-black-white-posts"&gt;sincerelyhapiness&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Follow for all black&amp;white posts !!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933540986</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933540986</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 11:43:49 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/20ae073f75fa19db4f199aef2a44e131/tumblr_mljeg0eDAn1rk2aqlo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933509809</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933509809</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 11:43:11 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c181aaf1e7a6b8d99654063e7d38606f/tumblr_mjb9a2LQ7c1r4u9wdo1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933466246</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933466246</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 11:42:18 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>brutalgeneration:

untitled by Miles Bowers on Flickr.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/2904882827d0ab56cf62b0df3837b2f4/tumblr_mluxs2fLgF1qigj88o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://brutalgeneration.tumblr.com/post/48931771604/untitled-by-miles-bowers-on-flickr" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;brutalgeneration&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/milesfbowers/6071967309/" title="untitled"&gt;untitled&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/milesfbowers/"&gt;Miles Bowers&lt;/a&gt; on Flickr.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933450433</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933450433</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 11:41:59 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>hellyeahhorrormovies:

I love American Horror Story, and this is...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/5d7468b2194f17f48b69457419b9ec21/tumblr_mlu25822Yz1qjouuqo1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://hellyeahhorrormovies.tumblr.com/post/48884295373/i-love-american-horror-story-and-this-is-also"&gt;hellyeahhorrormovies&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I love American Horror Story, and this is also true.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933439849</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933439849</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 11:41:46 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/9e18236f59fd28e68cfeb829a8334fa7/tumblr_mf3fpp4MLG1rie1y6o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933430139</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933430139</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 11:41:34 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/edd856b2d19ac4b8c76ad0195f615225/tumblr_mlvcusnxEm1qjm9bpo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933390575</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48933390575</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 11:40:46 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>kushandwizdom:

Click here for more personal quotes </title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/ebdfed98070220d3484ef80e45e85fbc/tumblr_mllw7tZge41rh1wv4o1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://kushandwizdom.tumblr.com/post/48916261184/click-here-for-more-personal-quotes" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;kushandwizdom&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://kushandwizdom.tumblr.com"&gt;Click here for more personal quotes &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48922535459</link><guid>http://xtremedreamz.tumblr.com/post/48922535459</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 07:12:49 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>bikenesmith:

like the worst thing ever is when you’re talking about something you really love to...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://bikenesmith.tumblr.com/post/30067703799/like-the-worst-thing-ever-is-when-youre-talking"&gt;bikenesmith&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;like the worst thing ever is when you’re talking about something you really love to someone and you can just tell that they dont give a shit&lt;/p&gt;
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